follow your pleasure
follow your possibility
Hi, my name is Noah.
I offer pleasure-centred somatic support for folks recovering from childhood sexual abuse and other forms of sexual trauma.
As a somatic sexologist and educator, my practice is informed by neuroplastic research, somatic and mindfulness-based therapies, humanity’s erotic wisdom, plus contemporary trauma trainings. I offer in-person sessions in Victoria, BC and I also offer online 1:1 support as well as workshops. My guiding passion is in supporting folks around me with education, coaching, counselling, and bodywork to cultivate a richer connection with pleasure and joy - whether in or out of ‘the bedroom’.
In particular I feel called to support folks who are doing their own inner work and tending to their unique erotic wounds and longings. Being a companion as folks tend to their erotic landscapes in the face of past unwanted sexual experiences with an eye to a future with greater ease, clarity, and joy is a profoundly beautiful honour that I do not take lightly. It is my hope to support folks in cultivating lives that are in commitment to whatever is held dear: aliveness, pleasure, power, love, peace, ease… whatever unique guiding truths and values govern the soul.
If this sounds like you - if you are hungry for a richer relationship with eros, or wanting to prioritize feelings of connection and joy, or are feeling curious about what pleasures makes you shine like the sun, then welcome - I am happy you’re here!
My Scope of Practice:
Embracing life and eros after childhood sexual abuse
Expanding experiences of arousal and pleasure
Coaching in negotiation and communication
Addressing pelvic pain / numbness / challenges with orgasm
Strengthening consent and boundaries
Journeying the 2SLGBTQ+ galaxy & transitions of all sorts
Embodying erotic sovereignty and wisdom
Navigating disparities in desire
Education regarding common sexual concerns
Mending wounds in self esteem & self worth
Sex & disability & aging support
Kink/BDSM resourcing
Ethical non-monogamy support
Deepening into sex, spirituality & ritual
Learn more about my core values and guiding principles, who I work with, free gifts and resources I have to offer, the lineage of my work, the ethical practice I commit to, or my long history in this field. Do you have questions about working together? Please send me an email - I’d love to hear from you.
“what would I be doing with my time if I made decisions based on a feeling of deep erotic orgasmic yes?”
-adrienne maree brown
What Clients Are Saying:
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"I’ve been meaning to email you and have been having trouble finding the right words. I can’t articulate how meaningful it is the work you do. As some insights and learning continues to settle more and more, I am struck by the depth of value of what you offer in sessions. I hope you hear this often and with the appreciation you deserve, but I really truly appreciate you. "
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"I am really enjoying the areas we're exploring, including experiencing my self-consciousness in eye contact, being seen, and receiving touch that is for my pleasure. I'm looking forward to exploring more. I'm so grateful for the skill, thoughtfulness, insight and presence you bring to our sessions. This has been an amazing source of insight and joy so far."
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"I wanted to thank you again and express my gratitude for our time together, you really respected my vulnerability and allowed me to go at my own pace. I will definitely be putting some thought into what I would like to explore in future sessions."
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“Thank you! Our time together has been so, so helpful—often in ways I don’t expect. Things come up or happen that I know are happening because of the tools you’ve helped me acquire.”
-NC
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Free Guided Erotic Meditation: Internal Experiences of Pleasure
In this 15 minute guided erotic meditation I facilitate a body scan, and then ease the meditation into a pleasure-based somatic journey. This meditation is a great potential avenue to explore and expand internal experiences of pleasure and arousal in a slow and somatic way. The tools offered in this meditation can be used to cultivate deeper awareness and arousal during solo or partnered play, or as a resource during experiences of grief, pain, trauma, or dissociation. It's also a great tool to help you get through dull work meetings!
